I have owned Ragdoll cats for over 22 years. I have only had one bad experience with a breeder. The breeder this lady was referring to has had a horrible reputation in Texas for many years. My advice before ever giving any funds to a breeder is to check them out thoroughly. There are so many excellent breeders to choose! Check to see how many years they have been breeding, seeing if they show their cats (many times you will find cats with better temperments from these breeders), make sure there is NO inner breeding in their cattery, check the catteries they have purchased their breeders and last but far from least make sure they DNA all of their breeders. A DNA'd breeder will show whether there are any certain diseases. Ask to see the DNA results on the Dam and Sire on any kitten you purchase. Do not purchase a kitten that is spay/neutered too young. Talk with a local Vet regarding spay/neuter ages. Good Luck!