I would get constant messages from hot women claiming to be members wanting to date me when I was a free member.The day I paid for the full upgrade, I barely got any messages at all. The ones I did get were from fake profiles. Some of which actually shared the same photos.Have been a member for 3 months and haven't actually got ant replies or any real emails from any of the ladies who were so eager to meet before. When I contacted customer service they said not to email profiles I didn't want replies from. I have tried with many emails and have gotten nothing back. This site sucks. Don't waste your money and time.