I was on POF before, but they won't let me on now. I was barely on before they locked up my account. I clearly stated that my gender was woman, while my sexuality was male. I have been this way publicly and legally for years. My wife died nine years ago, and I was looking for another supportive woman in my life. POF is the last free dating site; all others have hidden charges. Dating sites have become very greedy. Every site except for POF tried to induce me to join financially by flooding me with fake likes. Now, all online dating is out.