I too had a lot of contacts send messages that they like me and some were texted directly to my account by POF. But when l tried to contact them there instantly disappeared and was unable to reach them. Also l got a lot of scammers on site who were fake accounts and questionable texts that didn't have proper grammar to understand them. All they wanted was your email! Then l got women from Russia and Africa trying to get my attention. Second to last, the site asks too many personal questions that's best left within a date frame of mind. Lastly, you cannot recover your password because the algorithm will not send a requested change to your email. One last item to note: You can't get a refund on your credit card.