I don't recommend LifeMates. The quality of matches they gave me were absolutely NOTwhat I expected. They promised me there were alot of candidates suited for me, that was not the case at all. There were huge gaps in time where I didn't get any calls. I called/emailed them, but I got the runaround or couldn't get through. And if they did return my calls/emails, it took forever but never resolved the problem. They have excuses for everything. The high cost I paid was NOT worth the service I received. I see there are reviews out there that are somewhat biased, outdated or not dated at all (when Google-searched as "Lifemates reviews"). It's important for people to see BOTH sides before they make a decision to signup with LifeMates. Please check out Consumer Affairs website: http://www.consumeraffairs.com/dating_services/lifemates.html