I paid my dues and expected to meet a few ladies and hoped that it would lead to more then just dating. I had all these offers but when I set a date and time for it to happen it never did. I tried for three months and realized it was a waste of time and money. I cut off my membership and I get all these nice invites for everything that you can imagine; where were they when I was signed on? How come they (ladies) all managed to find my profile once I left the site. Can anybody explain that to me.