This site sends you fake (phishing) messages from fake womens profiles all day long, stating that they want to meet you etc. The profiles and messages are just to get you to pay to join so you can respond. I have proof enought because my photo for a while had my email clearly displayed for weeks before they caught it. My profile also had and still has my email clearly stated as well as the message that I am not a member and can not respond. None of the messages or responses ever referenced my email, nor did I ever receive a response there. None ever sent me contact information which I also asked for. They are all obviously auto replies. Another response in another complaint forum mentioned about the fake profiles having some "oc" in them to identify them. No profiles seem to have this. This person obviously is trying to trick people in this forum and on top of it, they justified what was going on. They tried to make it out as a honest police force to watch activity, rather than the scam that it is. I have never received a valid responde from an obviously real person. I never paid the site and never will. The simple fact is, I never pay for sites for a while until I get real proof there is any reality in it. Most times I try hiding information, and that only proves my suspicitions every time. Don' t let yourself get fooled. Most sites are scams, sorry to say.