Women contact men first on Bumble, so if you are a man there is not much you can do. You have limited time to answer their letters, which is really silly. There are lots of questionable and disingenuous women. There are sites like Seek4Mate.com with no scammers. This is the site I'm using now, it's way better than Bumble, because all profiles are background checked there, their women are more down to earth. They didn't loose touch with reality and they don't consider themselves queens and princesses. Therefore they don't expect men to fall at their feet and communication with them is easy, enjoyable and promising.