on two occasions, my message was erased right in front of my eyes (sexual content)then startin the next day and the following 4 days, I could not get on the site. I was a paying customer. a rep there deleted my account and gave me a credit for my payment. I continued to try to access pof. eventually I got back on. then I found the man that I messaged and the next day I started having same problem... could not get on. I sent a message asking if they had a policy of censoring members. no reply. is there anything that you can do?